A Sunday Sermon: Keeping Score
This week I used the gospel text (Matthew 18:21-35) as the text for the sermon. This text includes the "Parable of the Unforgiving Servant" and includes Jesus instructing Peter that it is not enough to forgive 7 times, but that his followers should be willing to forgive seventy-seven times. Here is the basis for my manuscript from this morning:
Keeping Score
More than a dozen years ago ESPN, the cable sports network, started running updated scores from every conceivable sporting event across the bottom of the screen. This technological gift to sports junkies like me provided the ability to glance at the TV screen and find out the score to any game we cared about without really having to disconnect from what we were doing. ESPN called this revolutionary technology the “sports-ticker,” having modeled it of course on the stock-ticker that announces stock prices on the
Now, if keeping score was limited to being a bit obsessive about who won and who lost or to tracking the ups and downs of stock prices, well then I’m guessing matters of faith might never intersect with this technological gift to the sports obsessed, and then keeping the score would be irrelevant to anything Jesus ever said. But the truth is, in the lesson we read from Matthew’s gospel, Jesus is offering the parable of the unforgiving servant as a lesson for all of us who keep score. In this parable Jesus is responding to Peter’s question about the breadth of forgiveness—and when Jesus commands that a person should be forgiven “seventy-seven times,” (for those of you keeping score at home) he is sending a message to early church members and to contemporary readers alike—that in order to truly follow Jesus and understand the breadth and depth of God’s love and grace, we must be willing to put away the scorecards that we use to keep a running tally of those who have sinned against us and instead enter in to the grace-filled world that only exists if we take seriously the task of forgiveness.
Subtlety, you see, is not something that Jesus valued as a teacher. In this parable Jesus leaves no room for debate concerning how important he believes it is to be able to forgive. In this parable Jesus uses a discussion of financial debt as his teaching tool, but rather than reduce the equation to simple math like 1 + 1 he chooses to make his point with absurd quantities—for a talent was worth something around 6000 denarii—or about 6000 days worth of wages. And so in this parable we have the one who is at first forgiven for an amount equal to many thousands of days labor refusing to negotiate a compromise with the one who owes for about 100 days labor—a tiny fraction of what they have just been forgiven. And Jesus makes it clear that he believes a grave error in judgment has been made by the unforgiving servant as he tells of the unforgiving one being tortured for his failure to pass on and learn from the forgiveness that he has received. Jesus, with this very harsh reprisal, leaves no room in the kingdom for the one who fails to understand the meaning of forgiveness.
Now Peter and all those who heard Jesus teaching would have been well-versed in the Hebrew scriptures and in its calls toward forgiveness, but in the teachings of Jesus they were hearing something quite new. The Jewish community to whom Jesus was teaching would have known that the book of Amos commanded them to forgive someone three times for their transgressions, but Jesus it seems is not content to let the ordinary stand and that is why we hear this parable as an ancient ode to the ridiculous.
But what is interesting about this parable is that it is still quite ridiculous today, in the same way it always has been and in new ways also. First, the jarring use of the huge sums is no less ridiculous today than it was in the past. In fact when huge financial sums have become an abstraction when we live in an era when we talk about budgets reaching into billions and trillions of dollars, the idea of forgiving huge sums is still virtually unfathomable to believe, perhaps more so because we often aren’t in touch with what numbers really mean. Next, this passage violates our sensibilities with its talk of torture and the conclusion that the Heavenly Father likewise will torture those who do not forgive. Who is that God? Is that who I want to follow? I read that and I was immediately looking for the eject button…which reminds me of the way I often want to critique those who take a literalist approach to the bible. Jesus is speaking in ridiculous terms in order to teach a lesson and we cannot get lost in the words and forget the message. Jesus wants us all to know, in no uncertain terms, that offering forgiveness is central to God’s plan for us. But he knows something about us humans, namely, that we don’t often react until the situation seems grave and so Jesus offers the gravest of all possibilities so that he can guarantee that we are listening. Torture, in this case, is a torture of the mind and of the soul—and Jesus wants us to know that there is another way if only we follow him on the path of forgiveness.
Finally this passage is ridiculous in its attempts to draw a parallel line between forgiving a financial debt and offering forgiveness when someone as sinned against us. It’s ridiculous right? No one would see these as parallel, right? But wait, because rather than being ridiculous this is where this passage gets real, this is where it cuts to the heart of the matter. Think about words from the Lord’s Prayer—forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors. Jesus uses the language of finance here—not because it was a convenient convention, but because it allows us to understand that forgiveness isn’t just an exchange of words, handshakes, or hugs. Forgiveness, in the way that Jesus teaches it is talked about in financial terms because true forgiveness has a cost—on both sides of the equation. For the person who is tasked with seeking forgiveness the cost is in admitting the way they have caused damage to a relationship, there is a cost in admitting that they have harmed another. Without doubt, when we are the one who has caused a fracture in a relationship getting to the point of asking for forgiveness does in deed seem very costly.
But more importantly perhaps I would note that forgiveness is costly to the one who is asked to forgive also…we can see how difficult it is to bear that cost in our scripture lesson. Offering forgiveness to another is costly because it forces us to give up our sense of superiority, it forces us to let go of the hurt rather than using it to find strength in the midst of our anger, it forces us to see the humanity in another rather than merely seeing their failings. Offering forgiveness is costly because it is a completely counter-cultural thing to do…especially in the quantities that Jesus is talking about. Quite simply it is easier to stay angry and bitter than it is to offer forgiveness and that is why the call to forgive at a rate of seventy times seven is so ridiculous, so costly, and yet so very necessary—because it confirms that the grace and love that God has granted to us is not some cheap relic of our mind. Instead, the fact that forgiveness, such a foundational piece of our faith experience is so very costly and difficult…that is precisely how we know its value.
So I wonder…what would it mean to live in a world where forgiveness was our baseline experience rather than something we had to be cajoled into living out? Think about that for a moment—And now I invite you to look at the front of your bulletin, because I think the words written there offer us a picture of what that reality might look like—because forgiveness I think is the road to freedom. It is interesting that those words were chosen, because they were chosen with story of Moses leading the Israelites out of
So, let us return to the sports-ticker of our faith…let us return to the scorecards that tabulate both our guilt and those who feel guilty around us …and let us change how it is that we keep score. Let us join Jesus in the ridiculous ritual of forgiveness as we seek to tabulate not the transgressions, but the full measure of God’s grace that we can impart to one another. Imagine it…imagine a running scroll showing nothing but the names of people who have been offered forgiveness. That would truly be a score worth keeping!
Thanks be to God, Amen!